The fundamental principle in the treatment of homosexuality is for the person to regain their own autonomy. In this book, Dr. Phelan offers help that will make the change process both subjective and objective through activities. He helps individuals transition from being reactive to being responsive. - Joseph Nicolosi, Ph.D., author of Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuals, Healing Homosexuality, and Shame and Attachment Loss

This book offers a wonderful approach to healing from same-sex attraction. It is full of on-target exercises shared by an expert who knows what he is talking about. Each exercise is designed to deal with the problems that individuals in the healing process may experience. These exercises include: repairing boundary violations (confronting overly intrusive mothers), confronting abusers (writing a letter; this letter may be sent depending on the situation), and determining your level of sexual addiction (it contains a useful chart with which those applying the exercise can evaluate and manage their addictions). A truly needed resource! - Gerald Schoenewolf, Ph.D., author of 101 Therapeutic Successes

Finally, a practical and therapeutic workbook for men who want to heal from unwanted same-sex attraction. This book is of a quality that will enlighten individuals on the journey of manhood and those who support them. It is a long-needed work that should be in the arsenal of men who want to reclaim their healthy masculine spirit. - Richard Cohen, M.A., author of Coming Out Straight and Gay Children, Straight Parents